We had our routine ultrasound this past week. Yes, choosing to not to find out the sex steals the 18-20 week ultrasound punch line, but it was fun to see the baby anyways. But both Brady and I independently peaked at the bum shots and although neither of us spotted anything exciting, it was fun to cheat.
Since I have 1 boy and 1 girl already I think I subconsciously assume I know exactly what the 3rd one will be like. (The girl will like pink and coloring, the boy will like super heroes and be laid back. . .) I imagine them as clones of their same gendered sibling. But I need to remember that this 3rd one will be their own self, probably just as different from their siblings as Liam and Elsie are from each other.
Raising our 2 kids so far has yielded drastically different experiences. The things that gave us grief about with one kid were smooth sailing with the other. The troubles we encountered with one were things we thought we'd already mastered with the other
One kid was.....The other kid was . . .
a picky eater, a hearty eater
a happy baby, disgruntled infant
loves being with friends, likes independence
an angelic newborn, tormented with acid reflux
always running away from us in public, always clinging to our legs
wears whatever clothes mom chooses, personally selects their clothes
loved drawing from the time they could hold a pen, too busy to draw
fearless around water, nervous around water
sleeps like a log, wakes up to roll over
terrible at nursing, terrible at weaning
generally quiet, always talking
introverted, extroverted
It's exciting to think about the suprises ahead of us with our next edition.