
Recently Brady and I were talking about our college degrees- their value, their abilities to get us a job, the work we put into them, the people they shape us into, the way they enrich our family and increase our potential to serve.
College is expensive and time consuming. I wonder if most people are reaping from their college experience what they intended. Tell me what you think.
As far as the job market goes Brady and I have somewhat “useless” undergrad degrees (Psychology and Exercise Sciences.) Both of us selected our undergrad majors as a means to get into grad school. When I tell people my major l generally roll my eyes to suggest “Yes, I do realize that I didn’t select the most useful, lucrative bachelor’s degree.” But should it matter?
What makes a college education worthwhile?
Needless to say, now my days are not filled with anything scientific but spent counting to 20 and singing the ABCs. I finished my undergrad 4 years ago and those days at BYU seem so long ago, so distant.
I really cannot remember a thing I learned my first few semesters while taking general education classes. At the same time I will never forget many of the friends I made, the fun I had, my host family during my study abroad, and the way these changed my view of myself and the world. Were those 2 semesters of mediocre grades "time wasted?"
Many people have different reasons for going/ finishing college. Some of them are laudable, some I think are bogus.
Sometimes women in college feel they have no incentive. They want a family and will never use their degree. Is it okay to pick an easy major, do easy classes until one gets a ring on their finger or a positive pregnancy test? Is it okay to go to college just until something better comes along?
If women just want to be mothers should they have to challenge themselves academically? How much weight do you give to the “just in case my husband dies” attitude towards women’s education?
Often people don't finish college because their career doesn’t require it – artists, sales reps, military. . . is it okay that they completely missed out on this social rite of passage? Are they skipping out on life’s lessons?
Is it alright to spend time and money on a degree that you are only half–heartedly interested in but that is easy and quick?
Should we be pushing our kids towards getting graduate degrees now that the job market is flooded with 4 year degrees?
Are some degrees truly “better” than others? (Of course the world needs philosophers, anthropologists, art historians, but enough to warrant getting a degree?)
Should people only study majors that can land jobs?
If we are truly looking to develop personal attributes why don’t more people spend 4 years volunteering, traveling, and soul searching?
After saying all that, basically I think the ideal cases for going through school are a) if you are pursuing something you are passionate about and or b)if you'll make money because of it.
My parents always assumed and expected us to get at least a 4 year degree. As much as I think that people should pursue their lives as they see fit, I would flip if one of my own kids told me they were opting out/dropping out of formal education. There is something commendable about taking on any challenging, lengthy task and furthermore finishing something that you started.